Need Advice!!!!!!!

hi...i just i wanted to get advice from my problem first because i really need some advice right now...
i am an education student and i really have a problem bec. i really dont want this course but my parents insisted that i should get this...and right now...i have a low grades and my parents are so mad with me bec. they have a high expectations on me...
but i do not have an interest on it...so what should i do?
and because of that i always think to kill myself!!!!!!!!
i hope you can give me an advice!!!!

First let me welcome you to Kabataang Pinoy


Talk to your parents. Tell them what you feel. Tell them the truth that you do not like the course you are taking. For sure they will understand and will let you choose the course you really like. It is always the intention of the parents to give what they think is best for their children. And if what they have given you causes you difficulties then they should know about it so they can help you.

Taking your life is not a solution. Your beautiful life is much precious than those difficulties you are facing. Let us treasure your life and solve the problems instead.

If you need someone to talk to then please stay and I will be more than willing to listen. Send me a Private Message or if you want I can give you my CP # so we can talk.

Smile! God loves you! :angel:

wuuh! mas lalo akong nainlove keh punong abala.. nyehe..



hello! welcome dito sa forum..



alam mo.. sa tingin ko, napagdaanan ko na yan...

my parents used to push me to do something that's beyond my capabilities..i admit that like you, i've also thought of killing myself due to pressures..hanggang sa punto na.. hawak hawak ko na yung knife.. kulang nalang.. isaksak ko sa sarili ko.. but then, in that very moment.. i've realized that there is more to life than just impressing my parents..although i know that i owe them eveyrything that i have.. but what awakened me most is the thought that it was God who had given me the chance to live... to live and be a part of the most precious thing that He created-the world...

and when i looked at the brighter side of it...those pressures that my parents were(and are) giving me are tests of my strenght..they wanted to know how long can i stand...how strong am i to be able to defeat all the obstacles that would be blocking my way to success..

the point is, those pressures are not given to us to impress our parents.. it's their way of knowing our capabilities.. our strenght and weaknesses..but beneath those pressures, are lots of lessons that could be gathered as we struggle through it..in one way or another, it's not our parents who are being benefited, it is US who get it all..and not only that, we are still given plus points for the happiness that we could give to our parents.. and a hundred bonus points for impressing God!


so i suggest that you should go on and look at the brighter side of it.. but whatever your plan is.. i know for sure that God will always be with you...but DON'T,i repeat, DON'T YOU EVER DARE COMMITING SUICIDE! sige ka, sa impyerno ang bagsak mo niyan. nyehe..

i believe in you.. so don't give up!..
"DO YOUR BEST AND GOD WILL DO THE REST!" --> trust me.. proven na yan!

uhm,for your additional information.. i'm living a peaceful and happy life now! and there's no other thing in this world that could give me the feeling of "different happiness" whenever i make my parents proud of me..

i hope that you'll be able to reach the finish line!

good luck to you mah frend! and may God bless you always..

ang haba nyan marya ah hehe..

i love u PA you're the best hehe...

kidding aside inang kalikasan, hindi solusyon ang magpapatiwakal....marami ka pang magagawa sa buhay mo....sabi nga ni PA talk to your parents and for sure they will understand you. Walang parents na natiis ang anak...lahat ng bagay may dahilan at ang dahilan mo ay dapat mong ipaunawa sa iyong magulang....

pag pe-pray kita sis

tnx poh ky marya,punong abala, at ky silip_lng....
mejo nenlighten aq s mga advice nyo...
pro sna ipagpray u n mgwa qng magconfess s parents q bout that matter...
d kc gnun kdling mag open s parents q...kc sobrang strik nila...
ble kc parents q tlga nagde2cide pra sming magkkptd...
2ly nfe2l q...pra lng kming mga tau tauhan nang mga kptd q...

also my brother has a problem...
my parents wants him to go baguio and be a cadet,
pro msya nah ang kua q s npili nang course and nsa gud skul xa...(u.p.)

i hope mtpos n mga problem q.....

inang kalikasan, hindi tayo makakapili ng parents natin and dahil sila ang ibinigay sa atin ng DIOS alam ng DIos na makikinig sila sa atin......walang pusong hindi lumalambot sa matimtimang usapan...hayaan mo't lagi kitang isasama sa panalangin ko para maaaos na ang iyong sambahayan...

woah woah..

hey kid.. it's not the end of your world
if you really want to pursue the course you really like
there are many options you can choose
and make sure to choose what is better for you
well.. i will add some of these options
i wish it would help you be enlighten

first pray and ask guidance to god..

next if you really think that the course your taking
would bring you to nowhere and just end up getting your parents
disappointed.. talk to them!.. don't wait for the day
that you will be placed in a shitty situation and getting yourself really messed up..
it will just make things more difficult for you..( i might see some girl in a tabloid
committing suicide and finding out that its okay for her parents to change her in
a course she really desire.. and yes.. another "sorry its too late" story)


next.. if you think.. you can make it through the course.. then pursue it..
prove yourself to your parents.. and tell them.. you have done your part in
their own choice.. and now its your turn to have one.. after finishing the course
go back to college.. and finish what you really want..as the old saying goes"its better late than never"
i have known guys who are taking up their 2nd degree now.. and they are really happy with it.. and excelling!
and if you have troubles thinking your parents will not support you financially.. don't worry.. your a degree holder.. you can already earn money.. so make sure you do good in your studies.. so that you can support yourself for your 2nd course.. and

if you think.. pursuing the course wont work.. i guess you really have to do the former.. and talk to your parents about it..

nga pala.. interesado akong makausap ka.. kung okei lng sau.. usap usap tayo minsan.. gusto kong makarinig mula sayo.. alam ko marami akong matutunan mula sayo.. pm mo lang ako.. naku wag mo sayangin buhay mo
bata kapa.. di mo pa ata nasusubukang maging inlove.. ikie... hehe.. uiiii smismille na yan.. hihi.. geh geh.. ingat at god bless.. dasal lagi sa diyos ah...^_^v

i think ok na si inang kalikasan....

tignan mo IK dami nagmamahal sa'yo dito sa KP.....

anjan naman si otso eh heheehe..

d ako pede.. bata p ako

hehhe,..bata pa rin naman siya eh hehe

tama bang ireto ako?
pero tnx po...
i have nothing against my parents nmn...
they done anything so that they can give us a good future...

ndepressed lng talaga ako sa mga grades ko...
now palang kasi ako nkakuha nang mba2ng grades...(ang yabang!!!!!!!)

ganun? ate silip... bawal ako eh.. maraming magagalit...

para lang naman mawala depressions kaya nagrereto ako hehhe...

wag ka mag-alala otso matanda na si IK kaya pwede na hehhehe...

pag depress ka IK kain ka marami...at least nakatulong sa'yo depressions mo hhee

makasabat nga, i think you should follow what you heart desire and talk to your parents about your decision. kasi it would be your future that's at stake e, would you be comfartable pag sinaba nila na si Piolo Pascual and dapat mo mapangasawa, anybody less is unacceptable? i'm sure baka mag-rebulusyon ka, same thing in choosing a career.

i know a person who was forced to take up medicine kasi family tradition daw, e wala naman sa loob niya maging duktor, so what happen, mas nadumihan pa pangalan kasi naging delinkwente.

bart wrote:

i know a person who was forced to take up medicine kasi family tradition daw, e wala naman sa loob niya maging duktor, so what happen, mas nadumihan pa pangalan kasi naging delinkwente.

hindi ako pabor sa mga mgulang na pinapakialaman ang bokasyong gusto ng kanilang mga anak....hindi naman kasi mae-enjoy ng estudyante ang kanyang ginagawa dahil hindi niya ito hilig...nagsasayang lang ng panahon at pera....hayaan na lang sana kung ano ang gusto ng anak at i-guide na lang sila sa tama...

tama ka jan ate silip!!
yan dapat ang sasabihin ko eh! wuhehehe

tama! pag-aaral muna. hahah. buti nalang hindi nakapalag sakin magulang ko! haha. gusto ba naman ako pakuhanin ng nursing. Ang galing.. e pasaway ako, sabe ko ayoko ng nursing kase una akong mamatay sa pasyente ng doktor na inaasis ko. Ayon, bumagsak ako sa mas mahirap na course. LAW, prep. Political Science. Wala lang sinabi ko lang. Hahahaha!

Lesson: WALA. joke. lesson, makinig sa magulang, alam nila kung anu mas madali.

Counter Lesson: Kunin ang gustong kurso dahil kahit na mahirap yan, kakayanin mo dahil un talaga gusto mo. hahaha

kausapin ng maigi ang magulang.. maayos, malinaw, sabihin lahat ng dahilan..

kapag tingin mong ginawa mo na ang lahat ng kaya mong gawin para kumbinsihin sila

magdabog, magtampo..

kung mahal ka nila.. sigurado papayagan ka.. pero pag may pagaalinlangan

tyak tigil ka sa pag-aaral

enjoy life ate

gud communication lang ang kelangan.,

onga wulang hindi maidadaan sa mabuting usapan..=)

tama si kuya jhuly, dapat open minded din yung taong kausap mo.. =)