Mutual Understanding = MU

naku itay!!!!!!!! hate ka jan, i thought youre always inlove hehehehehe....

hate daw ni kuya love section.. asa pa!

if i know.. kaw guru dito sa love section..

honga... ako nga eh tigil tigil mo

aysus.. si kuya.. maang-maangan pa daw.. hahaha

part talaga un ng buhay )

minsan nga mas maganda yung MU na lang, kesa sa mas malalim na relasyon

Jhuly wrote:

Sa too lang naman... hate ko ang lugar na ito sa KP... hehehe... masyadong maraming karanasang nagbabalik sa aking isipan... masaya at malungkot...

Pero lam nyo ba na ang MU ay naging uso sa buhay ko... lalo na nung naghiwalay kami nung aking wife... lahat ng sumunod na GF ko nagsimula sa MU... hindi kasi mailantad ang relasyon... ang hirap... sana wala na lang ganito diba...

naks naman.. ayan na, nagsha-share na si kuya jhuly..

isnt it nice to reminisce the past? at tatawa ka na lang bigla?


sa lahat...

anu ibig sabihin ng MU? literally.. kati ng ulo ko..
di naman sa balakubak

mu.. nagkakaintindihan kayong dalawa about your feelings.. both of you have feelings for one another yet there's no official commitment between the two of you.. there's no guarantee na having this kind of relationship will succeed esp. when one of you is just playing around.. meaning to say, 'yung tipong marami s'yang ka-mu.. although, meron din namang nagsa-succeed. 'yung ibang lovers ay nag i-start sa pagiging mu.. may advantage din naman kasi kapag mu lang kayo.. you get to know each other first before maging officially na kayo.. kung baga, meron ka ng idea on how your rel. will go..

however, i will not say that having a mutual understanding with someone is not as deep compared to those who really have an official rel. after all, some things don't have to be official.. the most important thing is 'yung napapadama n'yo sa taong 'yun. just keep this in mind, people won't probably remember what you say ten years from now.. no matter how sweet it is... they will just remember the feeling of it.. the joy, the sadness, the love that they felt...

maraming pwedeng maging reasons why people choose to have this kind of rel. some may be afraid to have a commitment pagkatapos ng isang break up. pwede ding maging mag mu dahil sa gusto muna nilang kilalanin ang isa't isa. meron din namang 'di pa pwedeng magka-gf/bf kaya pa-mu mu muna sila.. may mga takot magtanong para maging official na sila.. ehehe.. may mga hindi pa ready.. ano pa ba?!?!



i can say that i had a few relationships like this.. first, with my ex-bf.. he used to court me for years.. i had the same feelings yet too scared to start a relationship with him.. 'di masyadong approve ang parents.. naging mag mu kami.. no commitment yet parang kami.. we loved each other pero 'di kami official.. by doing so, it gave me an idea on how we would treat each other... us being mag mu lasted for years.. then, naging kami.. although, it didn't last for long; it only lasted a year.. yet no regrets.. =)

the most recent one... it happened last year...

thanks gelay for the info..
mukhang wala pa akong naging ka-MU..
either go or no lang.. walang maybe..
but could be perhaps.. but still a no. hehehe

wala pang nakaka-mu?? hmmm.. baka naman manhid ka lang, te?? o kaya talagang ayaw mo?!? tsk tsk

wala, kasi sa simula, pag-ayaw ko.. sinasabi ko na.
para alam niya hanggang san lamang ang boundary..

MU.,
kayong dalawa ay nalalagay sa sitwasyong lagpas ng onti sa friends at konti nalang ay lovers na,.
ayon.,
commitment sa friends na nasaobrahan ng konti.,
at kulang din para maging lovers.,
complicated.,
pero.,
ayos din na experience.,

belle wrote:

wala, kasi sa simula, pag-ayaw ko.. sinasabi ko na.
para alam niya hanggang san lamang ang boundary..

nakarelate na naman ako dito hehehehe

para walang prob gneth.. diba..
di mo na kasalanan.. siya na may kasalanan nun.. hahah

Jhuly wrote:

Abah si Mariel maraming alam... bata ka pa uy... wag nga muna ganyan... hahahaha

wahahaha.,
experience is the best teacher kuya jhuly.,
hahahahahaha.,

M. U

Iyun ba yung " MAY UNAWAAN" version...lols

parang ang ganda naman nun MU muna... ^_^